We often complain about not asking for the responsibilities we end up with. For instance: I love being a big brother! But, i never asked to be a roll model. My brothers and sisters ask me for advice all the time. I once looked at all the failures i have made as proof i shouldn be an advisor. But there is no substitute for experience. No matter how i look down on myself they will always look up to me. A small piece of success is giving them something to look at.